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I’d
like to address some of the questions that you might
have as you think about planning a ceremony for yourself
or a loved one. Of course, these questions may trigger
additional questions, and I will be happy to answer
any and all of them when we speak.
1.
What should I expect from a celebrant?
A celebrant is the presenter and communicator of your
feelings in a ceremony. You should feel comfortable
when you speak to a potential celebrant for your ceremony.
The celebrant should be professional and be able to
show you that he/she has understood what you have said
about what you want for your ceremony. The celebrant
should be clear about what he/she can offer you, how
he/she will work together with you, and should put it
all in writing with the cost for the celebrant's services.
A contract should be supplied.
2.
What
should a contract include?
Your
contract should clearly state the date, time and place
of your ceremony and the fee that you have agreed to
pay. It should also make clear that you have the final
say over the content of the ceremony. The contract should
also include details of the ceremony requested; whether
a rehearsal is to be included, the
time of arrival of the celebrant and
any items which the celebrant will need to supply (for
example, a sound system or podium).
3.
How do you work with us to create a ceremony?
I listen very closely to the words and the meaning that
you use to describe your feelings & what you want
in the ceremony. I will ask questions and offer a few
ideas as we chat to make sure that your wishes are fully
understood.
I will research readings, poetry, and rituals that can
enhance the meanings that you have in mind.
After that, I will write an initial draft of the ceremony
and give it to you for your review and comments. I will
do as many drafts as necessary until you are happy with
the result. You have the final say!
4.
Do you have any suggestions for us before we call you?
Yes! Write down any questions that come to mind. Please
do not be afraid to ask any question at all, even if
you might think it is a "silly" question.
Most people have not worked with a celebrant before,
and so might not even be sure about what should be asked.
You can relax about this--no question is a foolish question!
5.
Do you do anything after the ceremony?
After the ceremony, I will provide you with a keepsake
copy of your ceremony. |
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